The Pseudo Girlfriend. The one who can’t call him her man, but he’s her boo. The one who isn‘t committed to him, but she passes up other chances and just waits. The one who does everything a girlfriend would AND should, but yet isn’t. The perfect scenario for a guy and the worst for a girl. He gets everything he wants and needs without having a title. And boy does that makes all the difference in the world. She gets just enough attention and just enough “act right” to make her wait for that title [if it ever comes]. He has everything she wants and she’s waited this long so why not keep waiting. She has everything he wants [physically] for the moment until he can find someone else to do the same things better. To her, he’s Mr. Right. To him, she’s Ms. Right Now. He enjoys his sexual freedom through lack of a title. She enjoys being a caged bird with the door wide open. Does this make sense? No. Well not good sense anyway. Yet, at times, some feel it’s better to make “bad” sense opposed to no sense at all. And oddly enough, that makes sense to me.
Ugh, this is exactly what I don't want to be. Haven't completely got that deep in and I pray I don't without a title being added.
ReplyDeleteGreat job... this is too seriously true. Alot of times we want "some" chance as opposed to "no" chance at all. And it just happens... and happens and happens... and before we know it... he's #onttothenext.
ReplyDeletewomen need to stand up and put a end to this... Stop sampling your goods to men not willingly to commit. Stop acting like wife's and gf when your not. Stop with this causal relationships, cause it usually remains there. Save yourself for one who will claim you and put a ring on it not someone you have to wait for cos he calls you boo. THATS STUPIDNESS
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